Another Valentine's Day, another day of chocolates, roses, and love, love, love. Are you with the person on this planet who loves you the most, in a mutually loving, respectful, nurturing, supportive, joyful relationship?
Whether you already have all the attention, respect, and unconditional love you want, or you think there's nobody on the planet that has what you're looking for, I assure you: there is ONE person in the world who will always be there for you, always... well, if you can find them (I'll tell you how in a sec).
• This person loves you from the moment of your birth to the moment you leave the planet.
• They support whatever you do with loud applause (no matter how mediocre YOU thought the results were). Whatever you do is just peachy with them, because YOU did it.
• They love, respect and honor your personal preferences, eccentricities, scars, whims and tastes. They love how you think. Whatever or however you think.
• They love and appreciate every cell of your body, your shape, your attributes and your so-called 'flaws'. They know you are beautiful and handsome and every adjective you want to be, no matter what anyone else says.
Intrigued? I'll warn you now: The trick is finding this person. Most of the clients I work with have lost track of him/her (as I had, too, sigh), but I'll help you find them right now. Then it's up to you to invite them to play with you and declare their love. To do this, you need to take a very honest and honoring look at yourself. Do NOT look at yourself through others' eyes, which you've been doing your whole life!
Ready? Do you know who your biggest fan is? It is YOU. Now, now, no grumbling! When you become your biggest fan, you open ALL doors to success and happiness (and charisma!) I've seen it happen. Unfortunately, we haven't been encouraged or taught how to love ourselves, to be our biggest fan. We've been warned against it: "don't let that accomplishment go to your head" etc. Many folks go to great lengths to cut themselves down and get in their own way. They hate the image in the mirror (or a certain portion of it). They sabotage their brilliance, stuck in fears about what others will think. They think being bad is cool.
Silly them. (Silly you!)
HOW CAN YOU allow yourself to love, honor, nurture and support yourself exactly the way you are? Ask yourself this question right now. You are a divine being, with a unique message to share with the world, based on exactly who you are and all your experiences. And when you let this message out, it heals both you and the world. There is NOTHING you need to fulfill your highest calling. You are ready right now... because you are perfect, lovable, and delightful (OK, maybe a little cranky sometimes, but even that is cute).
So Happy Valentine's Day from the one person who loves and supports you the most: YOU. ♥ ♥ ♥ How can you start to love yourself better today?
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